lesson 17 - down

assalamualaikum...

someone asked me this question on why you feel stress and down and how in my opinion and exp (since aku tua -_-") overcome these two situations.

sometimes, you expect more from others i.e. you hope that you be treated well by your environment, colleagues and might be your family but at then, they are not doing what you hope for. at this time, you feel down. secondly, when you expect something more, and you get it, later on you found out that you are do not like that and hoping for another one. stress came in to place. later on, more and more work that are not related to what you like come one after another. thus, more stress come in. its about expecting more than what you have now, what your current situation now and not feeling gratefull with what you have..

even with your spouse (ok aku single lg), you expecting them to be closed at all time, treating you well and etc2 while they might have their own problem, even they are your spouse. what you can do would be, expect less, give more to others.

there is some saying that if you give more to others eventhough you are really occupied, God will help you through that particular situation. at the end of the day, when noone can ever back u up, only He can and will help you. so at the first place, never put high expectation, perception to others. rely on Him and later on, even other people let you down and cut you 'part by part', you be able to stand tall.

^^v

p/s: mls a nk tunggu gamba...tunggu gamba tak berupdate a blog aku ni...
p/s2: ada faham?

PI Getaway - Cherating

assalamualaikum...

it has been quite a long time for me to update the blog...ketiadaan komputer yg membolehkan mengedit gamba secara mantap dan laju adalah satu sebabnya...kedua, demi memenuhi inspirasi utk menjadikan blog ini part of photoblog while inspiring people, a photo must be there la kan?

thus, our section, project implementation of PRD, PMU held their very first famili day kat cherating..its a basically a 2 days 1 night event consist of PI staff....its fun, to be near to the sea again for quite a long time and the most interesting is, to take kids picture again...haha...yeah its fun...

nyway, not much of picture can be upload, not because of no so good pictures but rather the computer that i currently have, are not fit for photoshop cs3, so mana yg rasa rajin je diupload...nevertheless, its the best getaway of this year, seeing the nature, close to the nature and thanking the one that creating this lovely world...it do calm and relax the brain for the past few hectic week...

cam biasa tapak kaki!

some of PI staff
the PI staff (ada lg yg tak datang)

and 2 cute kids

p/s: ni je gamba, sori yek, wish to put more picture but the situation forbid me to do so...
p/s1: sori le kalo lama tak update blog..

^^v

ESQ - a memorandum

assalamualaikum...

last weeken, during ESQ intermediate training at MATRADE, there is a briefing for the alumni to understand what would be the changes in the ESQ Basic Training after being commented by few parties on the content of ESQ Basic Training. News or rumours saying  that ESQ is part of the "ajaran sesat" as per chit chatting of the one who haven't undergone the training itself is true. In fact major part of the content is still the same while the changes is due to the needs of further explaination. i wont't comment further about the news but one thing that all have to take note, it is not because of ESQ or the trainer who change the people, it is up to the participant to understand , use and apply what they was shown within 3 days of training and find their path closer to Allah. Allah will only give the light to those who wanted it.

upon the briefing, the alumni of ESQ 165 gathered a memorandum to Dr. Ary Ginanjar Agustian through one of Dr. Ary's trainer, Mr. Legisan Sugiman to show support in whatever Dr. Ary will do on the content of the training. we do believe that Dr. Ary upon guidance of Allah, will do his best not for the sake of profit, but for the sake of letting other people undescribeable experience towards achieveing something that can't be bought by money...

there are lots of ways on having more faith and love towards Allah. and i do believe ESQ is one of the ways and yes, it must be supported by other activity. tak guna g ESQ, tp tak perubahan dalam diri dan luar, 5 perkara dan apa yg disebut dalam al-Quran and Sunnah tak dibuat.

bangkitlah rakan2 dengan apa cara sekali pon. its time for us to shape this world to be a better world for everyone..

p/s: and ouh apa aku wat kat situ? accidently aku bwk dslr and happened to be one who free to take picture. and of cos la aku alumni ESQ. i'm hepi to be part of ESQ family.

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bile kanak2 riang bertanya

assalamualaikum...

bile ko dah berada di suatu tempat yang mana ko adalah org paling muda, tak putus2 la kad kawin datang menjemput aku ke majlis diorg...dalam detik hati aku sebagai kanak2 riang ni, aku ada la terlintas seper dua kara seperti berikut...maka korg sebagai org2 tua or mungkin masih kanak2 lg mungkin bole memberikan pendapat anda di bwh sana

• kenapa org nk kawin dikatakan berdarah manis? adakah kandungan gula diaorg tinggi?bukan ke kalo berdarah manis maksudnya nyamuk suke gigit ke? fakta ini terbukti time camping!
• memandangkan kekadang duit tak berapa nk ada, sbb rezeki anak2 tu takde sbb anak2 itu sendiri takde, maka awal2 biasa la duduk ngan mentua, adakah si suami atau si isteri rasa selesa duduk ngan mentua masing2?bahaskan. (wah cam tajuk karangan sekolah rendah lak)

maka itula pertanyaan aku sebagai kanak2 riang...org2 yg diluar sana? ada berani utk mengutarakan pendapat?